back in November 2015 I came out of a 2 year relationship with a guy who was a bully, an emotional bully.
In the beginning I thought he was amazing , he was sweet he made me laugh. but then things changed he would start arguments blamed everything on me, said I was the problem, he would make me cry then hug me and squeeze me and wouldn't let me out of his grasp even when I screamed your hurting me, i ended up with bruises.
he told me what I could wear, he said that if I wanted to dress like a rocker then he wouldn't come anywhere near me. he also wouldn't let me go out on my own, he would constantly text me or call me and ask where i was, he would cause arguments with my family just so they couldn't come and see me . he wouldn't let me talk to my friends, I lost alot of friends because of him. if I wanted to do something... he would then try and make me feel bad just so we would do what he wanted. he made me cry every day, I felt like I was in a prison not a relationship. I was so lonely. I worked with him too, that was also a mistake... he used to make me serve customers all day while he sat down doing nothing. he even called me over from one side of the shop just to pass something he had to a customer when he could of got up and done this himself. he made me run after him alot. I went up 3 dress sizes since being with him, i even went on antidepressants, he used to call me fat, ugly, stupid, dumb. and i actually believed him. and even now I still have these things in my head. why didn't I leave him sooner? because unfortunately I loved him. I thought he would change, but he didn't. I finally couldn't take his controlling ways anymore so i plucked up the courage and left him. this was the best time of my life. then he kept calling me and texting me saying he missed me, he loved me he wanted me back at the time I missed him too. I missed the good times we had but then he got nasty so I blocked him out my life.
then he started slagging me off to my friends , he even called me mental. said I was the problem the relationship ended. to be honest I'm glad I'm away from a man who likes to control people.
In the beginning I thought he was amazing , he was sweet he made me laugh. but then things changed he would start arguments blamed everything on me, said I was the problem, he would make me cry then hug me and squeeze me and wouldn't let me out of his grasp even when I screamed your hurting me, i ended up with bruises.
he told me what I could wear, he said that if I wanted to dress like a rocker then he wouldn't come anywhere near me. he also wouldn't let me go out on my own, he would constantly text me or call me and ask where i was, he would cause arguments with my family just so they couldn't come and see me . he wouldn't let me talk to my friends, I lost alot of friends because of him. if I wanted to do something... he would then try and make me feel bad just so we would do what he wanted. he made me cry every day, I felt like I was in a prison not a relationship. I was so lonely. I worked with him too, that was also a mistake... he used to make me serve customers all day while he sat down doing nothing. he even called me over from one side of the shop just to pass something he had to a customer when he could of got up and done this himself. he made me run after him alot. I went up 3 dress sizes since being with him, i even went on antidepressants, he used to call me fat, ugly, stupid, dumb. and i actually believed him. and even now I still have these things in my head. why didn't I leave him sooner? because unfortunately I loved him. I thought he would change, but he didn't. I finally couldn't take his controlling ways anymore so i plucked up the courage and left him. this was the best time of my life. then he kept calling me and texting me saying he missed me, he loved me he wanted me back at the time I missed him too. I missed the good times we had but then he got nasty so I blocked him out my life.
then he started slagging me off to my friends , he even called me mental. said I was the problem the relationship ended. to be honest I'm glad I'm away from a man who likes to control people.